Wednesday, May 27, 2009

I don't think it's anything after all

Maybe he's just not that into me.

I called him tonight and he was on call and so he had to call me back, which was fine. We were on the phone for 41 minutes (approximately 2 minutes of which was a work call he had to take -- and by the way I just heart a man who knows what he's talking about -- that's hot) and he laughed a lot and I laughed a lot and we had a great convo, but... he did not ask me out again.

And then HE said, 'So we'll talk again!?" and I said, "Hope so!" with a smiley voice. And he sort of chuckled and said good night and I said Bye! So maybe he's just not that into me. Oh well. Guess I'll see what happens from here. The suspense is just killing me...


Paula Light said...

But, but why would he talk to you for that long if he wasn't interested? Weird...

Do you think he wants you to ask HIM out? Guys can be insecure too. No really.

The Clever Cat said...

I wonder about the talking thing too. Hmm.

Well, I have no prob asking guys out, but a little effort on his side would not hurt, ya know? He can call me next, and I'll take it from there. There's also the financial thing -- what if I ask him out and this time he does not pay, like a normal man? ;^) My weekly net worth will drop precipitously. I mean, I could eat this week, or I could pay for a date.

I'm giving it a little time since his being on call could have something to do with it. Or maybe not. I do think he likes me, but am not sure if he desires me. Or maybe I'm way off base and he is trying to build caring by working up to it.

Who knows? I don't want to break down each and every bitsy thing the poor man does, but... I do like him and I have found myself thinking about him. BUT ALSO! I don't want to throw myself at him and then have him run screaming, because then where would I be? lol